Update: H and I had a good weekend. We spent time w/ friends on Saturday and spent sunday basically doing nothing.
Sometimes it is great to do nothing. He said it felt good just to spend time together and do nothing. Which was nice to hear.
Sunday also he did not talk to her which was nice.
Today was nice we had breakfast and hung around the house. It has been snowing since this AM. Hopefully it will be a cozy evening by the fire.
We did have a fight over the weekend. And from that I know I need to back off a little and not harp on the situation w/ OW. I think there needs to be a little more space and little confrontation regarding her. The less stress I give him will probably work in my favor. So I will work hard on those stopping thoughts and stopping my words before they come out of my mouth.
Well I believe that's all the update I have for now. I guess it is time to just shut up, sit back, and see what happens. Even thou that sucks. Hopefully it will payoff.
Positives: H tells me he loves me first We ML He is home H appreciates the cleaning of the house. H appreciates my food. H wants me to make him feel better when he is ill. H is spending more time at home. H is helping a little more around the house. ~inawe~
