I spent a lot of time acting as if she and the clubs didn't exist. I made sure I was attracting him back towards me...and sex entered into it a lot, too! I spoiled him rotten in the bedroom.
Since he never admitted to OW, I went back and forth thinking it was just me being "crazy." He allowed me to think that, too. But the phone call sealed it, she never said anything but the hang up was enough. Also, he called from her cell phone once and it was on my caller id.
I just left it all alone as my goal wasn't to get everything out in the open, but to get my H back.
