My H has been home for a month now. the first two weeks were great. there was no contact w/ OW. just her calling and leaving msgs. Then he contacted her and has been since. I have been struggling w/ this issue. And probably have not been DBing but freaking out. So now I will get calm and start to DB again.
I should have come here a long time ago to realize it takes a while for them to let go of OP. Didn't realize this. So I will just focus on what I want and that is my marriage and I will try to focus that this will take time and that this will also take patience.
I just wish he would not contact and see her. But he tells me they are not having sex. and that he is only intimate w/ me. He wants to renew our vows also. I told him thou that I don't feel confident renewing when he is still talking to her and he says that he won't speak to her after that. but how do I believe that? Well I will go for now need to rest. ~inawe~
