Thank you for your reply....I am glad he has been out of town this week as it has given me time to research and reflect a bit on what it is important. I know I love him and I don't want to be without him. I want to work on things with him so threatening him with that letter will not accomplish what I wish to accomplish so I thought I might do this instead.....I am going to ask him to write a no contact letter to her and then I am going to tell him that I will trust in him to tell me if she contacts him. That I am going to try my hardest to believe in him and hope that he doesn't let me down. Any thoughts?

Thanks