Thanks Sam, I would love to hear what you think, even though I feel it might be too late and STBXH is gone.
A lot of things you said apply to me. I was spoiled, and wanted a "perfect" family as well. I accomplished a lot in my life, so I was used to "getting" my way and also believed my way was "right", and treated STBXH badly at times b/c he did not see my "point". I was often frustrated b/c STBXH has such a weak willpower and was not accomplishing things as much as I was. He felt that, and did not like to feel like a loser.
Anyway, I would really appreciate if you could give me your feedback. Thanks, and I will visit your new thread under the new name.
