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Maybe he hung up on me because he feels that I am moving on with my life. This could be a good thing. I know he doesn't want to lose me.


IMHO, this is a very important point you make, Sam.

I would not directly pressure him about his sobriety. That just doesn't work. You can't control his drinking.

From what I recall of your earliest posts, your dropping the rope and GAL work did have a positive effect in the past, so maybe that is s/t to consider.

What might be some specific GAL goals for you to put into play, as soon as today?

Gabriel


God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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