I want to add one thing. When H found out about his situation with the physicians, I was the first and only person he called. He actually called crying and was very scared. I knew a long time ago that the best thing I could do was simply be a good example to H and become someone he could turn to when his world fell apart. I know husband wouldn't have shared this information with me if I hadn't done all the hard work I have done over the past two years. I proved to him that I am on his side, that I am not out to hurt him or get even. I made him realize that I don't want to hurt him or get joy out of his pain. As a result, I was the one he turned to when everything fell apart.
I think the same rules apply to all situations not just drugs. There may be another man or women involved or just a confused way of thinking. If you remain steadfast and patient and keep doing what is right, everything will come together in the end.
