That was a big step, and I'm sure you thought about it quite a bit.
Quote: the DBing I have been doing since December helped my H get over his anger towards me. H never hesitates to say he wants a relationship with me today. In December that wasn't the case. He tells me that he is "in love with me", and I believe with all my heart that DBing made that possible.
This is very inspirational! For me, especially the part of the DBing helping him overcome his anger toward you. My W has lots of that again, perhaps due to the D going thru and her facing its reality and wanting to blame again.
It sounds like you figured out that it was time to shake things up a bit, and DBing involves reversals and pursuit as strategically used tools.
