Hello Sam, glad to hear that things went well. It is a huge plus that you H misses you and knows you are the one for him. The addiction is tragic. I think that your cutting contact with him is the right thing to do. I always thought of Alanon as support for the addicts, not as support for those who love addicts. It is great that they are of help to you, and great that you are a caring enough individual to make the effort to go. You are fighting so hard for your marriage. Someday he will be able to see how much you love him. You are doing great! Hope
