You can call me Wes if that's easier, which it likely is.
So you have 3 days left and he knows it? I would wait then. I think he'll call. He threw a fit with the marry someone else and hang up stuff. He'll apologize. It would definitely be a positive if he calls you up to be sure you visit. I wouldn't call groveling just yet. Remember what you wrote earlier in this very thread....don't let your emotions run you. If he hasn't called before you go then just call him and ask him straight out if he wants to get together. Don't apologize...don't grovel...don't be mad...don't whine. Just ask in a friendly and happy fashion. If he says "NO" then without missing a beat say "OKay. Talk to you later." and then just end the convo. That's my take on it.
Just an FYI...might not apply to most guys. Get some of these other guys opinions...but for me if the argument was stupid or childish or was just a brief angry outburst from either one of us...I'd just prefer that the next time I talked that it was all forgotten. NO apologies or anything...just back to normal. That doesn't apply to big major hairy deals, but these little emotional outbursts tend to be forgotten by me and I suspect most men. So forgo apologies and just "act as if" nothing happened and see how that goes.
Wes
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
