1. She trusts me totally with the boys. I take care of them 90% of the time. She has told me that since this all happened I have become a better more involved father, which makes me some sort of super dad as I was a really good father before. I'm not bragging, its just that I love my boys so much and spend lots of quality time with them, because of my love for them. 2. How on earth do I get her to start trusting me? I believe being a friend is a good start. If there are other ways, fill me in.
I hope you are right about her wanting to trust me, sometimes I feel I have done so much damage that she doesn't even want to trust me.
