I think it's very encouraging, especially with your H saying ILY. I spend a lot of time with my H and he hasn't said that yet! I think that's very hopeful.
I have kids so I can't imagine your frustration, but I would say as long as your GAL, it would be okay. If you can be confident and upbeat without him, then even if your M doesn't work, other men would find you attractive etc so it increases your chances of winning your man and if not him then another man.
