What is it about LD's and their bodies?

[cinemanymph]

you truly want him to take you on the kitchen table for example? And you NEED him NOW!

I did just that last week and he rebuffed me to watch a DVD! It takes me an incredible amount of energy to move past my considerable baggage and his adolescent view of LM to get in the mood and see LM to a satisfying conclusion. And I don't get that great afterglow that a lot of you describe. LM leaves me with very little energy left to attend to the obligations of family life. That's why I say I don't have the energy to be Super Mom and Super Wife. I can be one or the other.

why should he desire you if you do not desire him in return?

Because we are adults and as adults we sometimes don't get our way when we want it the way we want it. I don't dampen any sexual impulse because he treats me like crap, as a matter of fact I run with it if it does happen hoping that ML may make the situation better. I don't try to make him "pay" for any of the things he has done by cutting him off sexually. I just don't move to action if there is no impulse there. I am not trying to punish my H, I am just as confused as him when it comes to my libido. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes I am hot to go, and it fizzles in the middle of things. In the era we are in, my inconsistent libido is considered a dysfunction. No one wants to be dysfunctional, even someone who is having problems with pinning down an evasive libido.