Ce, There is a pervasive lack of empathy that runs through a majority of your posts. You say yourself that you can't imagine your spouse feeling differently than you feel. Being able to imagine what others are feeling is a skill that is very useful in being able to relate.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"