If a women can not be a MOM and LOVER, then why the heck are any of us here? Which relationship is more important? I would even say that to be a good mother, you have to be a good lover. If you do not treat your husbadn well, THE CHILDREN WILL OBVIOUSLY SEE THIS. What the children need to see is LOTS of affection between Mother and father, far more the a very LD women can provide. But what I see is LD women avoid what is tough and go with what is easiest. What is easiest is for them to be MOTHERS. (Now being a mother is nto easy, but being a LOVER is far harder for them). They take the easier road.
Kids are a temporary relationship, but your spouse is forever. If you let the husband/wife relationship deteriorate, it may not be repairabel in the long run.
What is the focus of my wifes life, her kids. I am supposed to take care of my own needs, not her.
