Have you said this to her? "I guess I'm not important to you."
When my H and I first started C'ing....I was able to verbalize to my H that I didn't feel like a priority to him, I didn't feel that he viewed me as important at all. When it was put this way it was a complete shock to him that I thought this....it wasn't that way at all in his mind.
Just curious, stating that to my hubby made a BIG impact on him. I literally listed what I thought his top 3 priorities were...and I wasn't in that little list...in fact I think I was lucky to make top 5.
