Well it’s hard to say my face will reflect my emotion, after 40 years of training it is not easy to change
I am re-committing myself to an open discussion this weekend. I’ve been in a down period which translates into cordial and polite but begrudging conversations. I kissed her goodbye this morning and she was quite shocked. Sad commentary.
After much soul searching and input from this thread I am “gearing up” to talk to her. My goal is to follow what you and MrsNOP said and lay it all out there in a way I’ve never done before. I guess this will be what I would consider extreme emotional purging, at least for me. If she doesn’t catch on after that then I guess I’ll need someone from here to fly in and give me lessons…