Green said.....With my LDH I must take the lead, he will follow...but for some reason he can't yet get up the courage to get the ball rolling....so it's up to me to do it. It's not that he doesn't think I/We/Us is important, or the issues that I've stated are important....he just didn't/doesn't know what to do...so he's stuck in the mode of doing nothing at times. It's as if he's overwhelemed.


That sounds like my husband. He went to the doc one time years ago for his low drive. But I had to make that appointment. That was years ago and he was told his T level was just fine must be stress. He told me a month ago because he was having trouble with erections on and off that he really thought it was time to see a doctor. But that was a month ago and no apppointment is scheduled. He hasn't even talked about it. GRRRR!! Meantime I am fuming. That is how I feel it is HIS problem. It makes me so angry. Because I don't expect him to make my appointments if I needed one. He is like that to when he had a herniated stomach. I had to take him to the doc to get the ball rolling for him to get help. You would think he would be in pain and think man I need to get to the doctor.