In a relationship the sum is greater than the parts, but how much greater? In a fully functioning relationship, the intimacy, desire, touching, wanting, needing, sexually causes a closeness that to me turns into an overall feeling of ‘wellness’. Call it happiness, call it love, call it what you want, all I know is I WANT THAT, I want to feel it, and I want to think of it during the day and cant wait to be with my W, to feel it some more.
Don’t tell me that you can feel fully satisfied and happy knowing that this is possible but not being able to achieve it.
I think this is the hardest thing to explain, it isn’t the sex, I that is all we were looking for, I’m sure everyone knows how to find that, or take care of themselves if that is all we were looking for....