Quote: I also agree with you about the mutual respect. Were you making a comment toward me that I unintentionally missed on that...or was that a comment in general on the topic? Because I do absolutey agree with you on that.
Definitely a generalized comment.
I tend to "thought jump" sometimes and can wander off from the intial post, thanks for asking for clarification so I could look back and see that I forgot to drop the breadcrumbs along the trail...
Quote: I know my H would, the problem is...he does this when I don't know, so I hear about it second-hand. He is working on this though. I've explained to him that everyone I know (that he's talked to) knows how he feels about me because he tells them, but he doesn't ever tell me. He's working on this
I know what you mean. We both work on this one - taking the time to let the other person know what makes them special. Or what we admire about the other. I think marriages need a kind of "sit down and tell me things that are going to make me feel good about myself AND us".
Thanks for the thanks. We tend to come from the polar opposites in approaches while usually heading for the same goal.
