Quote: Interesting, isn't this philosophy what the LD counts on? The lower desire (least interest) has the power.
Perhaps in some relationships the whole issue of sexual frequency revolves around as an aspect of power. But I certainly don't think it is an absolute, nor am I sure that it is even the major factor.
After reading this board and others and tracing various threads and some folks back into the past, the factors that are playing along in the SSMs represented are as varied as the people posting.
There are affair issues, physical issues, mental issues, in-law issues, financial issues, relational issues, religious issues, alcohol issues, cultural issues, work issues. family of origin issues, sexual inexperience issues, rape issues, porn issues, former marriage issues, expectation issues, entitlement issues -
As the LD wife in our relationship, I can assure you that "powerful" was not how I felt.
