I have made my needs known to my wife. So from here on, anything I do will be for the purpose of getting sex and affection. This is the way it works, I fill her needs, and she is to fill my needs. But she knows this. She knows that everything is planned to some how create more sex. She wants to be wanted for something other then sex, but I do want her for sex! This is NORMAL. The problem is that if I want her for sex, she hates this. If I DON'T want her for sex, she is happy I see things her way. Either way , I LOSE!
I think that my wife is one of those women that just assumes that marriages always die down and you just become friends sharing the same house later in life. Afterall, nobody actually wants sex and lovin' as they get to middle age, right? Afterall, most of the women she knows are like this. Her natural mother is fridgid, her adopted mother is VERY fridgid, her sister is fridgid (her husband cheats on her), her other sister is from what I hear LD, and so is my wife. Then many of her friends have lousy marriages and several are divorced. So she rarely if ever sees passionate marriages. This is kind of why I say the LD's intentionally screw up their marriages. I see all these LD ladies that have no ability to focus on sex, so what do they do, they fill up their lives with all kinds of activities. It seems that just about ANYTHING is more fun to a LD women then sex is.
