sad thing, I used to really enjoy going out of my way and doing wildly romatic things for/with my wife. the anticipation and desire it fostered in me was wonderful and soemthing I go enjoyment from. I wasnt looking for sex from these efforts, but the total lack of desire (not just sex) has dampered my feelings to the point that this year for Valentines Day I picked up a card on my way home from work. This is the first time I can remeber that I didn't use it as an excuse for doing something fun and romantic. My heart just wasn't in it.
