Quote: Is there anything that women think of every 5 seconds of every day for 30-40 years? If so, I would like to know, then I might have some leverage to meet her needs.
So you want to manipulate her into giving you what you need?
What is her LL, what did you do in the FIRST place to woo this woman make her fall in love with you and want to be with you. Go back to base - you are an HDM you must have gotten what you wanted from her way back when, and she must have had her reasons for giving that to you. I bet she enjoyed being flattered, dated, talked to, made to feel special that's what revved her engines. If you want to cut through the clutter that is in your LDW's mind you need to do it through her mind not her body!
Take her out on dates Compliment her appearance (not in a raunchy way - just compliment outfits, hair etc) Send her cute little text messages or e-mails through the day buy her little gifts
Do NOT expect instant success - do NOT think if I take her out on a date she will ball me tonight, woo her the way you did when you guys first got together. That is the NO. 1 mistake that most guys make, giving up on the chase when they think they've got the prize.
Also BTW once you have got an LDW's fires burning try to fan those flames, if it was hot then keep it hot. LD's fires go out easily. If it was cool you need to do more wooing first before you try again.
Cool off, and warm her up.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
