I have to say that I would be considered the hd in our relationship, never mind 17 days....its comming upto 7 months . This has caused me to have a bad bodie image and I will not be naked in front of him at all, I wasnt always like this, its since the constant rejection and the putting 2 and 2 together, he no longer wants to make love to me so there must be a problem, I have gained weight so theres the problem.....the trouble is when I think about it logically he did this to his prevous girlfriend. About the touching, I would love him to have wandering hands on the occassion. Funny my ex husband used to always be going for my breast, I mean always...and it used to get on my nerves, he was very much a boob man....I used to remind him that I didnt just have boobs. So I cant seem to find a inbetween man