If I arouse her first, then touching can move onto the breasts and genitals. But if I cuddle up behind her in bed for example, and run my hands over her body and move up to her breasts without the arousal, then she has a cow and tells me to stick to the task at hand. I really can't understand how people would NOT like to be touched. The things I do to her body I would KILL for, and yet she dislikes them. She has told me that I have done things sexually to her that has caused disrespect. Evidently I ML to her when she really did not want to have sex, but she more or less let me do her. I have never raped her, but obviously she gave me duty sex and this caused her to disrespect me. I will tell you, it can be very hard to know when a LD women actually wants erotic touching to continue into sex and when it does not. She literally can respond to my touch while at the same time be virtually asleep. I have done things to her body that were starting to arouse her but if things continue long enough, I can literally hear her snoring, she has fallen asleep in the middle of being aroused! So she disrespects me fo ML to her when she is not fully aroused, but to be fully aroused is darn near impossible to predict with her.
I know she has g=body image problems, and in many ways is NOT confident with her body. This is the complete opposite of me, I find it very hard to comprehend why anyonew would not like to be touched by their spouse. It's almost like the LD thinks that any sexual touching is going to lead to sex. Not always, it is just playful touching. It's like don't touch me or touch me when we are deep into arousal, but there is nothing inbetween?
