MrsNOP,

This statement:
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For some folks, erotic touching is a form of intimacy. If the relationship is operating without any or with very little relational intimacy, then it's not very much different from having an acquaintance reaching for your personal parts.


Makes me think of my LDH. I've often wondered if he's actually ever experienced "relational/emotional intimacy", my hunch is no. Or if he has he was terribly hurt and no longer allows himself to go there...hence counseling He doesn't really reject my touch by pushing my hand away, it's more by complete inaction. Also when he does touch me it's not very romantic or sexual as it is more what one might think of a fumbling teenager. He doesn't seem at all sure of what he's doing after I get thins going.

Once again MrsNOP, great insight.

GEL


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!