So far, I see some very positive signs. One of which is that she says she is certain that our relationship could be a lasting one, and I think she really believes that. When we were married, she always had a nagging doubt about the relationship even from the beginning. She had a feeling that I would leave or that somehow it wouldn't work out. It was obvious that the doubt was there with what she said and how she said it, but I don't see those signs now at all. There was also a jealous friend that was an extremely negative influence and fed her many lies about me, both while we were married and during our separation and subsequent divorce. She no longer has contact with that friend. I do worry that she has to be responsible for her own thoughts and she was very easily influenced by this friend but I also believe from listening to her that she understands that her friend would not have been able to affect her so much if she didn't have the underlying fears.
Well, enough rambling for now. Thanks for the support!
