Wow. A call out of the blue. Very promising. And what is even more promising is her willingness to use a counselor. You just need to take things as they come. You have exhibited the patience you need since Nov 03. Keep it up.
Quote: Now, I am still struggling with the concern that she will fall back into her destructive behavior and again feel that I am "the problem" but I have seen some very positive signs from her.
I understand the worry, but she is making the right move. Whatever you do, let her bring that stuff up. Or allow yourself to listen to her and read the clues which suggest she has really changed. You will know the difference.
