Quote: -------------- What I suspect is that H feels he's loosing his grip, and is trying some way to keep me in the box. --------------
With the changes you are making, this is the most likely answer.
From what you have written lately, I just want to caution you about your responses to hubby. Do your best to keep them on an even keel, and try not to respond to 'hot button' issues. He is obviously baiting you at times.
Every time you respond to him 'the old way', he feels more comfortable and in control.
You seem to be holding up okay, but anytime you need to come here and spew, just have at it. No one is going to think less of you.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.