Of course I have time, especially for people with difficult R's so don't apologise.
I looked at your current thread. I read your letter to your W and from a woman's point of view, I thought that was romantic. I am not surprised your W cried. I sometimes wish my H would do something similar. However, I think that should be the only letter.
She does not - in my opinion - sound like a woman who is terribly sure of D. First she started off saying there's no hope and then she went to MC, not the actions of someone with 'no hope'.
Also, my H said there was 'no hope' and now I am dating him after everything we have been through so it doesn't always mean anything.
She is hurting and she felt hopeless, but as I've said before, nothing is ever final apart from death.
One thing I will say is, men and women communicate differently so maybe your W did try to talk to you before but perhaps you didn't hear her? If you haven't already, read 'Men are from Mars, women are from Venus', it's really good at explaining how men and women think.
I'm not sure what sort of advice you want (I'm better at solution focused advice) so if you've got any specific questions you want to pose that you think might help your situation, I would happily give my perspective.
But speaking as a woman, I think your W still loves you.
