Ioavva wrote --------- so what if he shoots the gun at home before, he can still use it again, right? ---------- Ioavva, yes, you are right. MB before seeing someone you are desperat to connect with helps to remove some of the desperation. Remember guys have about 24 times more testosterone than most gals. So with all of those hormones, some guys sometimes seems to have a one track mind. Relieving some of the sexual energy before meeting with someone you want so much just want to rip off their clothes and go at it like sex starved monkeys or babbits, MBing befor hand helps a guy to think more clearly for at least a little while.
---------- we ML 3 times in one night! ----------- Good to see some pashion in your life. Normal when I was 20 something. One time we did so often my testicles ached.
----------- The women would probably be flattered if they knew. ------------ Some would, I agree. Some would think I just wanted to use them sexually. Difficult to tell before hand and not appropriate to talk about it with out offending many people.
When I tell my W I get tingly when I hug her she sees it as I want something from her that she has little interest in. Just another one of those males using females to get the male's sex needs met or males being selfish.
What my W tells me she would rather have is someone interested in going shopping for shoes (30+ pair already) or purses. W also loves to have her back or feet rubbed. When I say I am getting the tingles or she feels sexy, she leaves. My W tells me "I wish you would forget about the sexy stuff." I reply that if I did forget about the sexy stuff she would be in a state where she would not like that either and would be begging me to go back to the way I was. I said " be careful what you wish for, you mighr get it some day and not be happy once you get it."
Jo, I know many women would be flattered but I think some women reach a point where once something that was very good becomes something to be avoided.
It's like a friend that gave mouth to mouth to revive someone. The guy that was passed out regurgitated his cantaloupe. The friend has a difficult time seeing or smelling cantaloupe.
---------- The women would probably be flattered if they knew. ----------- Thanks for reminding me. I have been on the negative end of this too long and lost sight that some women do feel good things if complimented this way.
Tag Re; past dog. I was not trying to put you down for what you did. The past is gone. I just wanted to point out that when you thought you were showing your W she was more important than the dog, she could see it differently and use it against you. I get a similar reaction from my W when a customer calls or when I work on the computer. W indicates I think more highly of my customers and computer interests than her.
BTW it was occassionaly that way when the kids were little. I had to tell wife that I was going to fly kites with the kids for an hour and then I was going to play or do things with her for a couple of hours just so she did not feel left out.
