Tag wrote --------- do you know how horney I am after 9 months? ---------
Tag, follow Jo's advice.
I watched a TV program about relationships where the guy was always horney. All he thought about was sex and his girlfriend was there and said it was anoying her too. The therapist advised the guy to masterbate prior to the date to relive some of the sexual tention he had so he could concentrate on the interactions between them and not his urges. They restated it in street terms because most of the audience was around 18 to 25 years old.
Suppose you had a gun with a hair trigger and the gun almost goes off when it heats up. What you need to is shoot the gun at home before going out on a date with your lady. Then there is no ammunition in the gun for atleast a while. You can think about what is going on around you and not worry your gun is about to go off.
Sorry to be sounding like a 16 year old.
Jo re: thinking about sex 12 times a day. I thought about something sexy at AM 6:45, 7:30, 7:40, 8:05, well you get the picture. I Can't hug a woman without getting that tingle feeling even though I know I am married and the woman is my W's best friend and am angel? I think the last time that happened (no tingle) was before I was 12. I guess I can tingle as long as I don't do anything. I would never want to offend anyone. I actually need to know someone very well before I say or do anything more than what is considered proper and polite.
I think being over tingley is related to the sometimes temporary condition known as no-ass-at-tall. (humor intended)
Now that I think about it maybe there would be no tingle if the woman were a female version of some one like Joseph Stalin (evil and cruel). I actually have very high standards.
