I'm a guy. Or a chap, is it, to you? And, I have the same feelings for my W as you do to your H. I'm hoping that this is just a " bump in the road" for us and that W just has to go in this direction. I have heard that divorce is sometimes necessary to make things better in the R and that a remarriage to an ex-spouse is often much better than the previous one. I have reasons to believe that my W and I will be reunited one day that I can share with you in the future. Maybe they are pipedreams, but I feel like I have to remain hopeful and believe in them. Looking forward to talking to you in the future.