Well, I am by no means out of the woods with my H but I'm getting there gradually and sometimes I get scared in case something goes wrong so it helps me too, to write it on here and I thought because I am dating H after a D, I could give hope to lots of you who are in pain over separation.
When I was going through it, the first year I had no one. My family abandoned me (shame at failed M), kids and H gone etc and everyone telling me to 'get over it' (Grrrr!!). Then I found Ash, a delightful British Life-Coach who knew all about DB'ing and who basically saved my life. He taught me most of what I know about DB'ing and it's because of him that I'm even talking to my H. He told me about this site but I didn't use it at the time because his help was enough for me.
Then when I started seeing H again, I figured I'd come on here both to calm my insecurity and to give inspiration to others, that love can survive a divorce.
Plus, I hate human suffering and I think if there's a hurt in this world, we should try to fix it. I view all other people as my brothers, regardless of whether I know them or not, because if I was in trouble, I would want someone to help me.
I don't think I've done anything particularly special on here though, I am just trying to do what I wanted from others at the time when my H left.
