Jo, you are just marvelous and a tremendous inspiration for all of us. Please keep posting your story, for it is most encouraging.
TAG, I have been where you are emotionally. In fact, twice now. Everything Jo has written you is gospel and you need to take it to heart. You can control only you and no matter if you had won $150 Billion in the lottery, you can't make them come back if they don't want to. Besides, what would you have and why would you want someone back who doesn't want you? You also need to be aware that many D attorneys will try to incite their opponents into anger so that they make rash and illogical/poor decisions. It works remarkably well too often. Take care and be strong.
