Right,

My H is okay, my kids are okay, it's me - ME!! I am upset so I figure I want to go dark as I need some space.

As I said in other posts, negative emotions never did the DB'ing process any good so I've decided to cut off for a week or so until I can get a handle on my feelings.

I will turn off my cell phone and I've turned off my msn so I can just have some quiet time.

What do you reckon, is that a stupid idea - am I being daft? We only just had a family day out but I have loads of internal issues going on in my head that I haven't resolved and I just feel if I tried to broach them with him now, it would put the DB'ing back, so it's safer to go dark until I can re-group myself.

Please people, send me a virtual hug. I promise I will be back to my normal self tomorrow.

Jo.