Me again...thanks for letting me ask questions on your thread.
H has said some things like "I can't make you happy, if I'm not happy", "it's about personal growth" (him leaving), "it's not about rejection" (him leaving). Are these just excuses when an OW is involved?
Then at other times H says "I know you think I'm all lost or something but I know what I'm doing" or he assures me how happy he is (he's not happy). We have no kids so is there any chance he will come back after the D?
I just don't see him doing any work on himself and feel he is confused and in denial. He is the type to have to scrap everything (M) and start all over.
How can I remain open to friendship and pull happiness and mystery out of my a@@ while all the house selling and D proceedings are going on? I saw you mention that people want what they can't have. Do you have any suggestions on how to make myself what H can't have when he doesn't want me? Thanks again!
