Ah hah! See my frustration? I'm not trying to control anyone but I can't shake the image. I'd never tell my W "as a man his parental role is that of dominant, kind of rule setting figure and me, according to him I am the nurturer, softer type because 'that is what women do.' not even when I was controlling. Yet she's still divorcing me! Wahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm gone until Tuesday. Ciao
