See, one of the adjustments for me is to realize that I've screwed up by not really understanding DBing no different than many here. Maybe by recognizing it I'm on the first step of the cure? I was just going to show up but MC counseled otherwise. Everyone has varying opinions. Many like NOPS or geneva think I should be in California all the time. I figure by being here I put distance and show independence. I agree with you. As I shared on an earlier post. I'll wear my new suit and catch a cab. I'll build my D15 a display case for her recent ballet performance. I'll golf with my friends and go to D15's two performances Saturday. Otherwise I'll work in the yard. That will drive W crazy. "Why work on the yard if we're seling the house?" I'll go see a few PAC-10 tournament games. W will tell me "Identify what household items you want" and I'll say "when the time comes I will. This is not the time." Make sense? Tell me, what do you mean by atm?
