Excellent, well done mate. You see, if you let people wonder after you, then they miss you and want you.
I had to cut my mother off because she was bad for my self-esteem and my M. I still love her but sometimes if someone just brings negative things into your life, you have to put up boundaries.
I hope one day we make up, but for now it has to stay like that so I can piece my family back together.
Btw, in reference to your earlier post, I'm not a genuine Brit anyway, because my dad was Greek! It's H who is the genuine Brit!