The first thing I noticed whilst DB'ing was that he asked to look at my re-decorating and he went all round my house, looking in every room. Then he said every room was a different colour (compliment). I said 'yeah, it's my 'Changing Rooms' dream' (Changing Rooms is a home makeover program). He laughed at me.
He started stopping at my house for 2 hours just to chat - so I knew he wanted me. He'd tell me what he was doing without me asking (before he didn't tell me anything about his life).
Smiles, suggestive eye-contact, noticing my clothes etc. 'You look nice today' and so on.
I'd purposely not answer the phone and then he'd say 'I've been trying to call you' and I'd say 'Oh, right' (acting indifferent but soaring on the inside!).
I noticed him lingering in doorways, prolonging conversations etc and then my suspicions were confirmed when he said 'happy anniversary'.
I kind of shut the door on him and did cartwheels round my living room!
After that we had several 'racey' msn chats on the computer and we had a nice family Christmas together, and after that ocassion it developed into a sexual relationship as well.
It was pretty easy really, as I know when my H is flirting
