Quote: He changed, or is changing, because I am. I know it's a cliche and it's mentioned on this site, but honestly, it's true. I am happy and outgoing and he likes my changes and mirrors them.
It has been 10 months since my bomb and we have been S for 7 months. I have been DBing for 6 months. Anyway, I noticed that H "mirrors" my actions and attitudes to some degree. He has also commented on me "smiling" a couple of times. H is full speed ahead for the D and it will probably be final in around three months.
My question is, how did you "act" during all the proceedings, paperwork, moving and all the "hard" stuff? Were you able to act happy? Did you leave him with a feeling that your were or could be friends? Was/is there an OW involved? We don't have kids, so there is really no reason for us to remain in contact.
