As for the rest, I just don't have a feel at this time. But I do know this, if you are emtionally dependent on each other, it is a recipe for disaster. And WTF, a 7 hour interview...someone has a screw loose and I don't mean you.
Keep posting. And remember the key is to be the best you can be regardless of anything else. Your goals are for you. You can't set goals for someone else.
