I am asking that you please carefully consider this post. It isn't important because I am speaking, rather there are important things that you must hear. I am not one-upping you, I don't particularly like what I feel I must say to you.
You and your wife are the only ones here that will fully understand what I am saying.
There is no need at all to reply to my post.
You have some serious issues that must be dealt with. They are eating at you and preventing you from doing work that you need to be doing.
These issues must be made known to the people that care about you and your wife - all of them.
ALL of the issues, including the secret ones must be deal with.
You must come COMPLETELY clean with your wife. That means the WHOLE truth.
You must become an 'open book' to her for the foreseeable future.
You must lean hard on the people that can help with your situation. You must listen to what they tell you.
I urge you, please bend the knee.
I hope that God will richly bless you and your wife.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
