1) The two of you knew that I was Nicegal, your wife, before I ever disclosed it and talked about it.
2) You told her in one email that you checked 42 times looking for an email from her.
3) When she signed emails she said "I love you" and you did the same...you called her "doll"...a special name that I thought belonged to me. You called her "gorgeous". YOu called her "babe". You called her "Sexy". You also called each other sweetie, sweet thang. She told you her full name.
4)You told her she deserved to have a meaningless "fling" in a hotel.
5)You talked about how her H didn't find out her sexual desires...etc and then said "Why wouldn't a man appreciate a woman that was as honest and open as you?"
There's lots more...no need to put it all...just this one friendship conversation:
I started to quote it and decided not to. YOu talked about how she needed someone mature to give back to her as much as she gave out. Then you said how you were perfectly willing to get on all 4's for her. It was your favorite position to eat pussy.
I don't need to give every detail. I think this is enough. But the picture you describe and the one I see is quite different.
This is about your M with you wife and not looking good to these people here.
I don't know what you want to call this that you had. But I think that if I had carried on with a person in this manner you would be...well, as you told your "friend"...it wouldn't bother you????