Thanks for the advice and encouragement. Last night he called after work and said he was going to his place to get some more stuff and would be over. Then he was going to a friends house. I decided I wasn't going to look like I was sitting at home doing nothing, so when he started to leave to go to his friend's, I picked up my purse and keys and started to follow him out. He said, "where are you going?". I told him I was going to visit a friend and I was sure I would be back before him.
I was gone for an hour and a half. And he was home when I got back! Hmmmmm!