Sounds like things are going good for you. I am in the piecing stage and am falling back, the lovemaking is hard for me. Especially since his affair at first it was great, but now it is more like just sex. I have tried everything but nothing seems to get the passion flowing again. I am also backsliding on the detaching thing. It is hard when he has been there everynight for two weeks, then all of sudden decides he has other things to do for three days. it is really hard. He can't tell me what he likes and doesn't like I am just suppose to know he says. I told him I felt like I was having to compete with his memories of her. This is so hard any suggestions?
