Try not to let him know what you are doing all the time, just that you are going out and having fun.

Make him wonder what you are up to!


Don't always take his calls. Be the one to get off the phone first...sound like you are busy and have to get going.

Try doing your hair a diffferent way and going through your clothes and dressing a bit differently than usual.

Make him wonder what is up with you for a change instead of vice versa.

Detach to the point of being less needy...not to the point of not wanting him.

And go to alanon if you can. It will help.
Questions?
Akgal

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