I haven't posted on the Board in ages, not sure who will remember me now.
But I had to put my 2 cents in here ( Or two pennies as we say in UK )
I spent a whole year coming to this site and in the process geinng my H to return home.
He has now been home for 1 and a half years, gosh thats gone quick.
Lol I cant tell you what a change in our R there is, its unbeleivable!!
My H, the man who is cold and un loving: ( so I thought)
1) Tells me he loves me practically every day ( WITHOUT Prompting)
2) Does regular tempreture checks ( do you love me ?) 3) never falls asleep without cudling me 4)Tells me where he is going, who with and why. 5) Is trying desperatly hard to get our friends reconected after we split they seemed to distance thm selves.
H is more in love with me today than he has ever been.
I have watched him change over the last year and a half, right from Baby steps to this day... Its amazing.
My List of do's
1) Do get a life 2) Do Detach 3) Do Be as loving and as supportive as you can 4) Do try and understand what Dbing is all about.
DONTS
1) Dont FIX all the time (if you stop they start) 2) Dont Beg, plead or cry ( beleive me when H came home I was so glad I hadn't got him back tht way)
